Wife and kid are out of town so I went out with an ex-girlfriend last night -

gHost Spartan wrote:IT was a fun, interesting night - we went to dinner at The Ainsworth right on the Hudson River with a view of midtown Manhattan, then headed over to a few bars in town. There were a ton of hotties out at the Washington Street bars, very vibrant nightlife, just as I remembered back in my golden days.

The ex-girlfriend looked smoking hot - she's still single after all these years and looks great. We've been out to lunch a handful of times since the move back but it was nice to actually go out and grab a few drinks. Out at the bars I was socializing with a lot of people and even though I was telling chicks that I am married none seemed to really care much, at least the chicks in my age group. It's interesting because I have observed this a lot more in recent years. It seems like people in their 40s prioritize their family over their needs in such a way as to still meet their needs in a much more discretionary way. For example, I know about a dozen attorneys back in Arizona who are cheating on their spouses with other attorneys but they refuse to get divorced. I also know at least two "alcoholics" and one person who abuses prescription medication.

I dropped her off at her apartment at the end of the night but she didn't invite me up, and frankly I didn't expect her too. But, it was still good to know that I've still got it and with minimal effort I could have hooked up with probably three chicks last night.


Life is weird.

tGreenWay wrote:That was a cool story, broseph.

Other Teams Pursuing That wrote:

tGreenWay wrote:That was a cool story, broseph.

Where is the story and how did I miss it?

gHost Spartan wrote:

duffy munn wrote:Fake pics of girl or this never happened.

The only pics that I have are bikini pics that she texted me over the summer before a date she had. She wanted me to select the best bikini for her date.

gHost Spartan wrote:

duffy munn wrote:Fake pics of girl or this never happened.

The only pics that I have are bikini pics that she texted me over the summer before a date she had. She wanted me to select the best bikini for her date.

gHost Spartan wrote:

NigelUno wrote:Why did you break up?

We broke up when I was in law school, it was a long distance relationship and very difficult for both of us. She's a really sweetheart, too good to be true, really, but I also grew unattracted to her.

I first hooked up with her on New Year's Eve, 2000 - not Y2K, the following year. We worked at the same company and were introduced at the company Christmas party. Coincidence, she was at the same NYE party in Hoboken that I was at - these parties are great, pay $100 and drink all night free, packed with single ladies. It was the night of the Mississippi State bowl game that was in a snowstorm. I remember watching the game before we went out. Anyway, we hooked up at the bar and later went back to my place. I had recently purchased Kid A and we listened to it pretty much on repeat all night while hooking up in my bed. She wouldn't bang but I went down on her and she gave me a hand job, refused to give a BJ. In fact, she wasn't into BJs at all and I only got them once in a while. She wasn't very adventurous in bed even though she is very pretty and sexy. Petite, long straight dark hair, 1/2 Italian and 1/2 Argentinian. She went to Rutgers.

gHost Spartan wrote:

duffy munn wrote:

If any of this is true, how the hell do you stay married?

Ummm…. pretty simple, Muffy, my wife doesn't go looking through my phone. Plus, she knows that I'm very flirty with the girls and she's totally okay with it. There's been a few times in AZ when I've gone out with one of my best friends, a gorgeous tall attorney, gotten drunk, and crashed at her place. It's okay when you're in a trusting relationship. Last year I went away for the weekend with another chick that I mountain bike with. It's okay Muffy. But yeah, she doesn't know that my ex-girlfriend texts me bikini pics, that might not go over too well.

gHost Spartan wrote:IT was a fun, interesting night - we went to dinner at The Ainsworth right on the Hudson River with a view of midtown Manhattan, then headed over to a few bars in town. There were a ton of hotties out at the Washington Street bars, very vibrant nightlife, just as I remembered back in my golden days.

The ex-girlfriend looked smoking hot - she's still single after all these years and looks great. We've been out to lunch a handful of times since the move back but it was nice to actually go out and grab a few drinks. Out at the bars I was socializing with a lot of people and even though I was telling chicks that I am married none seemed to really care much, at least the chicks in my age group. It's interesting because I have observed this a lot more in recent years. It seems like people in their 40s prioritize their family over their needs in such a way as to still meet their needs in a much more discretionary way. For example, I know about a dozen attorneys back in Arizona who are cheating on their spouses with other attorneys but they refuse to get divorced. I also know at least two "alcoholics" and one person who abuses prescription medication.

I dropped her off at her apartment at the end of the night but she didn't invite me up, and frankly I didn't expect her too. But, it was still good to know that I've still got it and with minimal effort I could have hooked up with probably three chicks last night.


Life is weird.

duffy munn wrote:

gHost Spartan wrote:

Ummm…. pretty simple, Muffy, my wife doesn't go looking through my phone. Plus, she knows that I'm very flirty with the girls and she's totally okay with it. There's been a few times in AZ when I've gone out with one of my best friends, a gorgeous tall attorney, gotten drunk, and crashed at her place. It's okay when you're in a trusting relationship. Last year I went away for the weekend with another chick that I mountain bike with. It's okay Muffy. But yeah, she doesn't know that my ex-girlfriend texts me bikini pics, that might not go over too well.

Yeah, I guess she wasn't concerned about fictional Juanita. Why would this current tale concern her?

DWags wrote:We need to talk about the Kellog Centers fucking bathroom.

Robert J Sakimano wrote:

DWags wrote:We need to talk about the Kellog Centers fucking bathroom.

they have a separate bathroom dedicated to that sort of thing?

tanfan! wrote:

duffy munn wrote:


Yeah, I guess she wasn't concerned about fictional Juanita. Why would this current tale concern her?

Ghost is the originator of the term fake news. Just a heads up. It all started with him and it's grown

Wally Fairway wrote:

tanfan! wrote:

Ghost is the originator of the term fake news. Just a heads up. It all started with him and it's grown

you mean that this wasn't a dinner date with Jewel?

duffy munn wrote:

Wally Fairway wrote:
you mean that this wasn't a dinner date with Jewel?

I don't think so. Also don't think weekends with hotties and crashing over a "friends" houses after getting hammered happens.

If it's true and twife tolerates it, she's not very bright.

Robert J Sakimano wrote:

DWags wrote:We need to talk about the Kellog Centers fucking bathroom.

they have a separate bathroom dedicated to that sort of thing?

NigelUno wrote:

duffy munn wrote:

I don't think so. Also don't think weekends with hotties and crashing over a "friends" houses after getting hammered happens.

If it's true and twife tolerates it, she's not very bright.

Maybe she goes out drinking with guys and sleeps over.

It's all about trust.

DWags wrote:

Robert J Sakimano wrote:
they have a separate bathroom dedicated to that sort of thing?

Nope, but what's up with the shower and turlet and no separation between them and the water drains to the middle of the floor by the sink in there. If I do a friday saturday there, I'll take a shower saturday, but if it's just saturday, I drive home and shower. Worst hotel bathrooms ever

Watch Out Pylon! wrote:

DWags wrote:


Nope, but what's up with the shower and turlet and no separation between them and the water drains to the middle of the floor by the sink in there. If I do a friday saturday there, I'll take a shower saturday, but if it's just saturday, I drive home and shower. Worst hotel bathrooms ever

Looks like a handicapped bathroom. I got bumped to one of those before. The shower was wide open right near the toilet. It was weird.

DWags wrote:

Watch Out Pylon! wrote:

Looks like a handicapped bathroom. I got bumped to one of those before. The shower was wide open right near the toilet. It was weird.

But that's the point. They're all like that. Every one of them. I stay there 8-10 times a year football and basketball season, and other shit lately. Every damn room.

Robert J Sakimano wrote:

DWags wrote:

But that's the point. They're all like that. Every one of them. I stay there 8-10 times a year football and basketball season, and other shit lately. Every damn room.

are they all sideways or is it just this one?

DWags wrote:

Robert J Sakimano wrote:are they all sideways or is it just this one?

Mostly. Depends on how much I've had to drink.

Robert J Sakimano wrote:

DWags wrote:

Mostly. Depends on how much I've had to drink.

I've found that there is any inverse relationship to alcohol consumption and concern about the bathroom.. or, heck, even if it is a bathroom.

DWags wrote:

Robert J Sakimano wrote: I've found that there is any inverse relationship to alcohol consumption and concern about the bathroom.. or, heck, even if it is a bathroom.

Good point.

Robert J Sakimano wrote:

DWags wrote:

Good point.

the more I sit here and think about it, I've whizzed in some strange places. Always alcohol-induced decisions, too -

CheesySpartan wrote:

Robert J Sakimano wrote:the more I sit here and think about it, I've whizzed in some strange places. Always alcohol-induced decisions, too -

You seem to piss your pants on here everyday about Trump so make sure you add that to the list.

By-Tor wrote:Its tough being a married 40 year old dude.    The pool of females you're attracted to runs from 18-60.   Sex at home becomes stale because the kids sap up so much energy.   To add fuel to that fire you hang out with people in the same position.  I can see why so many couples becomes swingers or why spouses stray.   Ghost,  I commend your ability to refrain from banging your ex.  I woulda pounded her. Kudos

duffy munn wrote:

By-Tor wrote:Its tough being a married 40 year old dude.    The pool of females you're attracted to runs from 18-60.   Sex at home becomes stale because the kids sap up so much energy.   To add fuel to that fire you hang out with people in the same position.  I can see why so many couples becomes swingers or why spouses stray.   Ghost,  I commend your ability to refrain from banging your ex.  I woulda pounded her. Kudos

I also give ghost credit for not fake banging this fiction woman. But again I think the tall tale would be better if he did.

duffy munn wrote:

By-Tor wrote:Its tough being a married 40 year old dude.    The pool of females you're attracted to runs from 18-60.   Sex at home becomes stale because the kids sap up so much energy.   To add fuel to that fire you hang out with people in the same position.  I can see why so many couples becomes swingers or why spouses stray.   Ghost,  I commend your ability to refrain from banging your ex.  I woulda pounded her. Kudos

I also give ghost credit for not fake banging this fiction woman. But again I think the tall tale would be better if he did.