I have a pretty good problem to have.

There are a few women vying for my attention. I am 40.

One is 35. She's super sweet, super cute 5'4", around 115lbs, okay in bed, she's a gourmet chef and fun to talk to. Drawbacks: Can be a little boring at times and not adventurous in the sack.

One is 29. She's very energetic, also super cute, 5'8" about 125 - 130ish big jugs for her frame, waxes the kitty, adventurous in the sack, pretty good cook. Drawbacks: She has an annoying voice, talks a lot and can be really needy.

One is 28. Shes flat out hot. about 5'6", 135 (all muscle), athletic. just the hottest chick I've ever been with. We have a great rapport, a similar sense of humor, she likes kinky stuff int he sack. Not a good cook but a great baker (it's weird - plus she doesn't eat the stuff she makes). Kind of my dream woman. Drawbacks: She can be withdrawn when she gets "too close" to someone, I think it's a fear of rejection thing, and she lives a thousand miles away.

Anyway, The 35 and the 29 year old I am seeing at the same time. Neither of them are okay with it and both want me to commit to them only. Both of them have some stuff I want but not everything. The 28 year old is realistic about it and although we've had the talk and she waxed nostalgic about moving out west, I don't see that happening. Her whole family is back where she lives and she loves her city. I am going to be seeing her for a week and a half soon though... and if things go well I might suggest me moving there. Huge step, but if there's such a thing as "the one" she might be it.

So, basement dwelling denizens of tSwil, Oh, masters of the vicarious relationshipl, what, in your enlightened opinions should I do? Both the ladies in my town are pretty great. I could have a fun, fulfilling relationship with either of them, but just not gaga over either of them (and neither are named Pam either, Seinfeld aficionados).

gHost - how did you hack into Rocinante's account?

ghosts lame. He's married and has a kid. Slow boat to an early death.

OP--You're trying waayyyy too hard bruh.

The_Dude wrote:OP--You're trying waayyyy too hard bruh.

Doesn't really help my decision making process, but thanks?

do either of them have big fake tits or cry on the second date? these are the characteristics that are important.

35 year old. The sex is going to lose its luster after some time. #2 sounds a little crazy and if the voice already annoys you, it will get worse. #3 sounds great, but of course she is, she lives 1k miles away, things change quickly living together.

Rocinante wrote:ghosts lame.  He's married and has a kid.  Slow boat to an early death.

I think my biggest problem right now is.. I don't know.. let me think.. maybe the fact that the window is closing rapidly on cycling outdoors.. but this does open more windows on winter running, which is my favorite time of year to run.

We have good problems, dude.

AMwood wrote:do either of them have big fake tits or cry on the second date? these are the characteristics that are important.

I didn't ask, but when we first met, the 29 y/o volunteered that a lot of guys think her boobs are fake but they aren't. I later discovered that to be true. No crying yet from any of them. Well, that's not totally true, the 35 year old has cried in my company a few times, but not about me. She's just emotional. That doesn't really bother me.

Link them all to this site, see what happens:

https://www.morethantwo.com/polyamory.html

InTenSity wrote:35 year old. The sex is going to lose its luster after some time. #2 sounds a little crazy and if the voice already annoys you, it will get worse. #3 sounds great, but of course she is, she lives 1k miles away, things change quickly living together.

You know... I have been leaning that way. Except, even if I "commit" to her, I'm still going to see the other girl. I have to ride that train to the bitter end, wherever it may take me.

Robert J Sakimano wrote:


I think my biggest problem right now is.. I don't know.. let me think.. maybe the fact that the window is closing rapidly on cycling outdoors.. but this does open more windows on winter running, which is my favorite time of year to run.

We have good problems, dude.

I don't really think it's lame. I wanted kids in my marriage, but it didn't work out. So that opens the other segment of this discussion: Do I still want kids? The 29 y/o has stated pretty clearly she does. The 35 year old has a great kid but I don't think wants any more. The 28 year old says she doesn't, but I get the feeling she may change her tune in a year or so.

Needs pics to form legit opinion.

No, but I will find reasonable facsimiles.

Get them together for a 4 way.

Hey guys--Im currently banging 3 hot chicks who all make 6 figures.

Will you help me decide which two I should kick to the curb? Thanks.

Rocinante wrote:No, but I will find reasonable facsimiles.

Be honest--these chicks dont exist and you weigh 300 pounds....amirite?

29 year old looks a little like Naomi Watts with short hair.  She has a slightly larger mouth with kind of big front teeth, which I've always found attractive.  Her chin is a little smaller.



35 year old looks a little like an older Felicity Jones although her teeth are not as large as Ms. Jones.



The 28 year old is hard to describe.  If you took Bette Middler after the nose job and regressed her age to 28 and gave her reddish hair... She looks kinda like that.  Mostly it's the eyes I think.

The_Dude wrote:

Be honest--these chicks dont exist and you weigh 300 pounds....amirite?

Nope. I'm sexy bro.

And I make far from 6 figures. I'm poor bro. Still paying for my ex until the end of the year.

Rocinante wrote:Still paying for my ex until the end of the year.

Looks like your New Year's is going to be a helluva party!!

The_Dude wrote:


Looks like your New Year's is going to be a helluva party!!

Now this is ****ing TRUE.

You care way too much about how they perform in the kitchen. Make your own damn food.

No pics.

This thread is bad, and you should feel bad.

Turtleneck wrote:You care way too much about how they perform in the kitchen. Make your own damn food.

I am capable.  But why wouldn't that be looked on as a positive?

For instance, I'm handy around the house. Is that not desirable in a man?

Just ask the horse in the window the same question. If he stomps his foot once than you settle for one of them. If he stomps his foot twice then you get to figure out how to juggle the both of them for the next several years.

Ummmm.....bang them all until it falls apart then find another set. This isn't rocket math

Rocinante wrote:

I am capable.  But why wouldn't that be looked on as a positive?

For instance, I'm handy around the house. Is that not desirable in a man?

Why does it have to be desirable in a man?

Turtleneck wrote:

Why does it have to be desirable in a man?

I don't know. Why don't you make that your new cause and go March about it or something?

I am good at maintenance. I am not good at cooking. Both things are desirable in a household. Whether male, female, or gender neutral, whoever I choose to live with, it would be nice if they had skills that complemented my own.

Rocinante wrote:

I don't know. Why don't you make that your new cause and go March about it or something?

I am good at maintenance. I am not good at cooking. Both things are desirable in a household. Whether male, female, or gender neutral, whoever I choose to live with, it would be nice if they had skills that complemented my own.

So you need an indentured servant?

Turtleneck wrote:

So you need an indentured servant?

No. If I needed an indentured servant, I'd go to AnastasiaDate.com

Pretty sure I could get one of those bitches to come over here for like 5 years if I promised them citizenship at the tail end.

Mrs. Miser has said multiple times taking out garbage & fixing shit around the house is "man's work". I asked her what the "woman's work" was & she said "supervising".

Heat Miser wrote:Mrs. Miser has said multiple times taking out garbage & fixing shit around the house is "man's work". I asked her what the "woman's work" was & she said "supervising".

I'm kinda horny for your wife.

Rocinante wrote:

I don't really think it's lame. I wanted kids in my marriage, but it didn't work out. So that opens the other segment of this discussion: Do I still want kids? The 29 y/o has stated pretty clearly she does. The 35 year old has a great kid but I don't think wants any more. The 28 year old says she doesn't, but I get the feeling she may change her tune in a year or so.

yeah, kids are cool.. and not in a creepy Forbin sort of way.

so I can definitely see where you're coming from..

Rocinante wrote:

Heat Miser wrote:Mrs. Miser has said multiple times taking out garbage & fixing shit around the house is "man's work". I asked her what the "woman's work" was & she said "supervising".

I'm kinda horny for your wife.

You better just focus on your current dilemma.

Heat Miser wrote:

You better just focus on your current dilemma.

Product of my genetic composition. Sorry.

Kids are a game changer. "Beliefs" should be lined up. Views on money.

These should all be thought of before bigger knockers or smaller knockers.

(cause the physical becomes less relevant later.)

Are these all Wyoming women? I bet they are better at fixing stuff than you.

AvgMSUJoe wrote:Kids are a game changer.

Agreed. All of the sudden you have free labor and more personal time.

Turtleneck wrote:Are these all Wyoming women? I bet they are better at fixing stuff than you.

No, two of them are and neither of them ride horses which just bottles my mind.