Helped neighbor cut some tree branches down

WhiteBoyHatcher wrote:

The Pantry wrote:Not that it matters, but is she married?

Yes, she is. But he works late.

So, she knows he's fucking other chick(s) and wants some revenge...?

Good call backing off.

I think he legitimately works late. I have seen him leaving during the middle of the day to go to work. He is a bit older though.

Here's the question I have often asked myself: if I knew for certain that I'd never be caught, would I do it?

Rocinante wrote:Here's the question I have often asked myself: if I knew for certain that I'd never be caught, would I do it?

I think it all depends on if you actually love your wife.

If you do, you wouldn't because you'd be wrought with guilt over the thing. if you didn't really love her, you'd probably do it because why the hell not?

Rocinante wrote:Here's the question I have often asked myself: if I knew for certain that I'd never be caught, would I do it?

The ageless question...

-4bin

WhiteBoyHatcher wrote:I think he legitimately works late. I have seen him leaving during the middle of the day to go to work. He is a bit older though.

You have way to many posts here to find time to bang the married neighbor who's 5' 2", 110lbs with the older husband who works late.

Wait, you sure know alot about them...........

She probably just wanted to thank you for helping her. Don't read too much into it.

y2kMgrad wrote:She probably just wanted to thank you for helping her. Don't read too much into it.

This is why UM has a super high percentage of male virgins.

Turtleneck wrote:

y2kMgrad wrote:She probably just wanted to thank you for helping her. Don't read too much into it.

This is why UM has a super high percentage of male virgins.

Well I lost my virginity way before college, but whatevs.

Turtleneck wrote:

y2kMgrad wrote:She probably just wanted to thank you for helping her. Don't read too much into it.

This is why UM has a super high percentage of male virgins.

Well, that and, you know, um women...

kingstonlake wrote:

WhiteBoyHatcher wrote:I think he legitimately works late. I have seen him leaving during the middle of the day to go to work. He is a bit older though.

You have way to many posts here to find time to bang the married neighbor who's 5' 2", 110lbs with the older husband who works late.

Wait, you sure know alot about them...........

I work from home. This is known.

y2kMgrad wrote:

Turtleneck wrote:

This is why UM has a super high percentage of male virgins.

Well I lost my virginity way before college, but whatevs.

So you didn't go to UM?

Bringing over a bottle of wine is a universal thank you gesture. Or have I been unknowingly sending out flirt signals?

Triple Sparty wrote:Bringing over a bottle of wine is a universal thank you gesture. Or have I been unknowingly sending out flirt signals?

Some dudes like wine

Triple Sparty wrote:Bringing over a bottle of wine is a universal thank you gesture. Or have I been unknowingly sending out flirt signals?

In retrospect, this is a fair point. 


In addition to the fact that she has to be at least 30 years older than me. And that she brought it in a gift bag, and said "I hope you guys like wine".

WhiteBoyHatcher wrote:

Triple Sparty wrote:Bringing over a bottle of wine is a universal thank you gesture. Or have I been unknowingly sending out flirt signals?

In retrospect, this is a fair point. 


In addition to the fact that she has to be at least 30 years older than me. And that she brought it in a gift bag, and said "I hope you guys like wine".

Code for "bend me over right here".......

HT wrote:

Rocinante wrote:Here's the question I have often asked myself: if I knew for certain that I'd never be caught, would I do it?

I think it all depends on if you actually love your wife.

If you do, you wouldn't because you'd be wrought with guilt over the thing. if you didn't really love her, you'd probably do it because why the hell not?

Why would you be wracked with guilt? Are you wracked with guilt about masturbating?

Sorry, WROUGHT with guilt. By the way the question is rhetorical. Of course I would.

LooseGoose wrote:

WhiteBoyHatcher wrote:
In retrospect, this is a fair point. 


In addition to the fact that she has to be at least 30 years older than me. And that she brought it in a gift bag, and said "I hope you guys like wine".

Code for "bend me over right here".......

Seems to me like its code for "I hope you and your husband enjoy this together."

tGreenWay wrote:

LooseGoose wrote:
Code for "bend me over right here".......

Seems to me like its code for "I hope you and your husband enjoy this together."

What the fuck ever happened to the "thanks" after someone does something nice for you? Bringing gifts cause WBH does the right thing for a neighbor is like the fucking trophies we have to give all the little participants in soccer. I mean sure it's nice to get a blow job after you've trimmed some trees but a simple @wow thanks@ would be good enough. Bringing wine just complicates things.

WhiteBoyHatcher wrote:

Triple Sparty wrote:Bringing over a bottle of wine is a universal thank you gesture. Or have I been unknowingly sending out flirt signals?

In retrospect, this is a fair point. 


In addition to the fact that she has to be at least 30 years older than me. And that she brought it in a gift bag, and said "I hope you guys like wine"

So, now it comes out the 5'2" 110 "petite blonde" is almost 70...?

You are a major disappointment.   Halfway tempted to go collecting neighborhood dog turds in a bag to set fire on your front porch.

The Pantry wrote:

WhiteBoyHatcher wrote:
In retrospect, this is a fair point. 


In addition to the fact that she has to be at least 30 years older than me. And that she brought it in a gift bag, and said "I hope you guys like wine"

So, now it comes out the 5'2" 110 "petite blonde" is almost 70...?

You are a major disappointment.   Halfway tempted to go collecting neighborhood dog turds in a bag to set fire on your front porch.

WTH is wrong with 70?   I know a couple 70 year olds that would destroy you.

Only lowlife's and scumbags cheat on their wives.

Don't get married if you don't want to fuck one vagina the rest of your life. It just really isn't that complicated.

The_Dude wrote:
Don't get married if you don't want to fuck one vagina the rest of your life.  It just really isn't that complicated.

This is one of your best posts here. Boom. Simple as that.

Other Teams Pursuing That wrote:

The_Dude wrote:
Don't get married if you don't want to fuck one vagina the rest of your life.  It just really isn't that complicated.

This is one of your best posts here. Boom. Simple as that.

Why?

Rocinante wrote:

Other Teams Pursuing That wrote:

This is one of your best posts here. Boom. Simple as that.

Why?

Are you asking me why someone shouldn't get married if they don't want to fuck one vagina the rest of their life?

Other Teams Pursuing That wrote:

Rocinante wrote:

Why?

Are you asking me why someone shouldn't get married if they don't want to fuck one vagina the rest of their life?

Sure. Essentially that's what I'm asking.

The_Dude wrote:Only lowlife's and scumbags cheat on their wives.

Don't get married if you don't want to fuck one vagina the rest of your life.  It just really isn't that complicated.

Great point.

HT wrote:

The_Dude wrote:Only lowlife's and scumbags cheat on their wives.

Don't get married if you don't want to fuck one vagina the rest of your life.  It just really isn't that complicated.

Great point.

Why?

Rocinante wrote:

HT wrote:

Great point.

Why?

I guess because I see marriage as a total commitment to someone, and if you aren't going to be 100% committed to that person (including only fucking one vagina for the rest of your life), then you shouldn't bother because you're wasting both your time and your partner's time.

HT wrote:

Rocinante wrote:

Why?

I guess because I see marriage as a total commitment to someone, and if you aren't going to be 100% committed to that person (including only fucking one vagina for the rest of your life), then you shouldn't bother because you're wasting both your time and your partner's time.

Whew, someone answered. How is sex related to commitment? To be clearer, is it impossible to desire sex with multiple partners while being "committed" to one person? If so, what is the line? Desire our the actual act?

Rocinante wrote:

HT wrote:

I guess because I see marriage as a total commitment to someone, and if you aren't going to be 100% committed to that person (including only fucking one vagina for the rest of your life), then you shouldn't bother because you're wasting both your time and your partner's time.

Whew, someone answered. How is sex related to commitment? To be clearer, is it impossible to desire sex with multiple partners while being "committed" to one person? If so, what is the line? Desire our the actual act?

I don't know what the line is. In my opinion, I would probably say the actual act.

I personally, when I'm with someone, have a hard time feeling attraction/arousal for anyone else. Like the only person that'll do it for me is whoever I'm with. I'm probably extremely abnormal in that sense, though, and I'm sure it has something to do with my Asperger's.

HT wrote:

Rocinante wrote:

Whew, someone answered. How is sex related to commitment? To be clearer, is it impossible to desire sex with multiple partners while being "committed" to one person? If so, what is the line? Desire our the actual act?

I don't know what the line is. In my opinion, I would probably say the actual act.

I personally, when I'm with someone, have a hard time feeling attraction/arousal for anyone else. Like the only person that'll do it for me is whoever I'm with. I'm probably extremely abnormal in that sense, though, and I'm sure it has something to do with my Asperger's.

So desire to have sex with someone other than your spouse would be okay, but actually having sex with someone else would not?

Rocinante wrote:

HT wrote:

I don't know what the line is. In my opinion, I would probably say the actual act.

I personally, when I'm with someone, have a hard time feeling attraction/arousal for anyone else. Like the only person that'll do it for me is whoever I'm with. I'm probably extremely abnormal in that sense, though, and I'm sure it has something to do with my Asperger's.

So desire to have sex with someone other than your spouse would be okay, but actually having sex with someone else would not?

I personally wouldn't be okay with it, but it seems to be a pretty acceptable thing in our society which is why I said the actual act is more the line.


But I would say that when it comes to a negative act, that thinking about performing the act, is better than performing the act itself. If you don't do it, it still shows restraint and some degree of loyalty, which is better than lacking both of those qualities.

Like say a buddy of yours does something that leaves you absolutely livid, and you just want to sock him for it. You want to, but you don't sounds a lot better than wanting to and actually hitting him. It's not like you can undo that, either. The damage is done, and I think cheating on your partner operates similarly along those lines.

People get wrapped up in lots of destructive feelings and emotions all the time. It's better to think and not act upon them, than it is to think and act upon them. Much less damaging and isn't irrevocable.

Roc was dying to have this discussion. 

My .02. 

It's ok to desire to have sex with someone other than your partner. It's ok to actually have sex with someone other than your partner. 

But there's a caveat. The partner has to be on the same page. Trust and communication are probably the two most important things in making a marriage work in my opinion. You don't fuck with either of those things. If your partner is not ok with you boinking other people, you don't boink other people and betray their trust. If you aren't sexually satisfied by your partner, that should be communicated so that you can work together on a solution that doesn't betray their trust. If you can't come to a solution that is agreeable to both parties that you can live with it may be time to end the partnership. 

Marriage is a lot of work and becomes a lot harder once you have kids. Storybook marriages are hollywood bullshit. It's a pain in the fucking ass to be honest with you. But at the end of the day, after a measly 10 years of marriage, I do still love my wife and I'd say roughly 90% of the time I would rather be married to her than be single.

No pictures - on some boards there would be a neg repathon for such a thing

also - what is tater-mail and how do I sign up

thread potential - 8.5
thread delivers - 2.5

oh well the OT season is almost over, so we will soon get actual football threads

Marriage seems pretty overrated, and difficult. Not sure why it's so desired in society.

There are a few hotties in my neighborhood.

And...their trees need to be trimmed.

WBH should post more about his kids and wife. He doesn't do that enough.