Relationship advice needed from gsm

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 11:49

So how exactly do you make this things work? As some you may know, I'm in love now, so I need some tips. All I know is bang bang bang, find them fingerblast them fuck them forget them. No idea how to make them last.

All tips appreciated . Tia

by **Rocinante** 2016-04-06, 11:51

Completely change who you are and what you believe in. In any situation, whatever your thought is, do the exact opposite. When you have kids, realize that you will no longer have sex or time to do anything you want to do.

Above all, just have fun.

by **CORNER BLITZ** 2016-04-06, 11:55

Everything is a test and there's always a right answer (it's not yours)

"I'm OK with anything you pick" = definitely not OK with anything. Find the secret motive

by **SeeRockCity** 2016-04-06, 12:20

You just have to be yourself, hopefully she loves you for who you are...

wait, nevermind.

by **Other Teams Pursuing That** 2016-04-06, 12:21

Don't do it

by **xsanguine** 2016-04-06, 12:23

by **xsanguine** 2016-04-06, 12:35

Blanch, let me ask you a question.

How many times have you turned down the advances of an 8, 9 or 10?

Let's start there for a moment and we're bring it back around to your question.

by **DWags** 2016-04-06, 12:39

FTR, any advice given in this thread you might be called to court or even charged with accessory after the fact.

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:16

CORNER BLITZ wrote:Everything is a test and there's always a right answer (it's not yours)

"I'm OK with anything you pick" = definitely not OK with anything. Find the secret motive

Hoping and praying this one is different. One of the first things I told her is that she'll be greatly disappointed if she things I read minds. If I could, I wouldn't still be single in my 30s

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:18

SeeRockCity wrote:You just have to be yourself, hopefully she loves you for who you are...

wait, nevermind.

2nd call to change who I am completely. Lol. She told me that's what makes her crazy about me....my awesomeness and premium status.

by Guest 2016-04-06, 13:20

Blanch32 wrote:
SeeRockCity wrote:You just have to be yourself, hopefully she loves you for who you are...

wait, nevermind.

2nd call to change who I am completely. Lol. She told me that's what makes her crazy about me....my awesomeness and premium status.

Good gawd was she a prisoner somewhere for 20 years or more?

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:20

xsanguine wrote:Blanch, let me ask you a question.

How many times have you turned down the advances of an 8, 9 or 10?

Let's start there for a moment and we're bring it back around to your question.

Never cheated when in a relationship. That's when I drop the act when talking to hotties, and the vast majority find by behavior reprehensible so there's been like zero options.

Now when not in a rela, game on!!!

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:21

Other Teams Pursuing That wrote:Don't do it

Dude. When you meet "the one" you'll just know it. Just try avoiding finding her as long as possible. Lol

by **Death Roe** 2016-04-06, 13:22

If you really REALLY love this person, you will realize what has to change. If not, then you're screwed.

by Guest 2016-04-06, 13:23

Death Roe wrote:If you really REALLY love this person, you will realize what has to change. If not, then you're screwed.

If he really loved her he would leave her. Now. Before he damages her.

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:23

DWags wrote:FTR, any advice given in this thread you might be called to court or even charged with accessory after the fact.

I'm sure I'd invite some Swillsters to the wedding. Even you, you crazy old kook! Excited about meeting her in Maryland?

by **xsanguine** 2016-04-06, 13:24

Blanch32 wrote:
xsanguine wrote:Blanch, let me ask you a question.

How many times have you turned down the advances of an 8, 9 or 10?

Let's start there for a moment and we're bring it back around to your question.

Never cheated when in a relationship. That's when I drop the act when talking to hotties, and the vast majority find by behavior reprehensible so there's been like zero options.

Now when not in a rela, game on!!!

So you become a pariah in the company of hotties? Once they're on to you, that is?

Not hating, mind you. I know the struggle.

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:26

LooseGoose wrote:
Blanch32 wrote:

2nd call to change who I am completely. Lol. She told me that's what makes her crazy about me....my awesomeness and premium status.

Good gawd was she a prisoner somewhere for 20 years or more?

I did once date one of the almost Cleveland 3 girls. No joke. Dude tried to kidnap her before the others , and used that experience to fix his kidnap game. Pretty fucked up to even think about still today.

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:28

Death Roe wrote:If you really REALLY love this person, you will realize what has to change. If not, then you're screwed.

Like trying to bang other chicks? What if they are hotter than her? That still a problem?

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:30

LooseGoose wrote:
Death Roe wrote:If you really REALLY love this person, you will realize what has to change. If not, then you're screwed.

If he really loved her he would leave her. Now. Before he damages her.

Dude, I'm still friends with all my exs. Except the last one. Yea.....but that's another matter.

by **Death Roe** 2016-04-06, 13:30

It doesn't matter if they are hotter than her, they could be complete pieces of shit as people. Shallow, low self-esteem.

Yeah, you would definitely be close to giving into temptation, but after a while, don't you just wanna chill out and relax with that shit?

I went through that phase in my early-to-mid 20s and felt kinda hollow. Wanted to find someone that I cared for and could eventually love, and I found it.

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:31

xsanguine wrote:
Blanch32 wrote:

Never cheated when in a relationship. That's when I drop the act when talking to hotties, and the vast majority find by behavior reprehensible so there's been like zero options.

Now when not in a rela, game on!!!

So you become a pariah in the company of hotties? Once they're on to you, that is?

Not hating, mind you. I know the struggle.

What does that even mean? Is that Yiddish for paronah?

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:34

Death Roe wrote:It doesn't matter if they are hotter than her, they could be complete pieces of shit as people. Shallow, low self-esteem.

Yeah, you would definitely be close to giving into temptation, but after a while, don't you just wanna chill out and relax with that shit?

I went through that phase in my early-to-mid 20s and felt kinda hollow. Wanted to find someone that I cared for and could eventually love, and I found it.

Not really. I'm 34, and yet to chill. But I get your point. I have just refused to settle for what's simply available. I demand excellence from my slam piece 4 life!

by **Death Roe** 2016-04-06, 13:34

Everyone is different, but I'm sure it'll happen to you eventually. You don't want to ruin a good thing if you can already tell it's a good thing!

by **Other Teams Pursuing That** 2016-04-06, 13:41

Blanch. If she's the one you won't have to change. Fuck that.

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:48

Death Roe wrote:Everyone is different, but I'm sure it'll happen to you eventually. You don't want to ruin a good thing if you can already tell it's a good thing!

This is true? Can I simply ask her, "given the fact that you ve known me for going on 8 years now, how will I fuck this up?" Will that direct of an approach work?

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 13:48

Other Teams Pursuing That wrote:Blanch. If she's the one you won't have to change. Fuck that.

Agreed!

by **Death Roe** 2016-04-06, 13:49

Blanch32 wrote:
Death Roe wrote:Everyone is different, but I'm sure it'll happen to you eventually. You don't want to ruin a good thing if you can already tell it's a good thing!

This is true? Can I simply ask her, "given the fact that you ve known me for going on 8 years now, how will I fuck this up?" Will that direct of an approach work?

If you think you know her that well, do you think she will give an honest answer and open a dialogue?

You don't have to change entirely, but maybe coming to a compromise helps on some things. I didn't change who I was, nor did my GF. We just worked together on getting along and enjoying each other.

by **InTenSity** 2016-04-06, 13:53

Sounds like you have it all figured out. Best of luck to you.

by **Other Teams Pursuing That** 2016-04-06, 13:54

InTenSity wrote:Sounds like you have it all figured out. Best of luck to you.

Relationship advice needed from gsm 502811600

by **xsanguine** 2016-04-06, 13:55

Is she down for a 3 way? Or at least let you and a buddy run a train?

Let's start answering the important questions.

by **Death Roe** 2016-04-06, 13:58

InTenSity wrote:Sounds like you have it all figured out. Best of luck to you.

Relationship advice needed from gsm Murraylol_zpszwdswxa5

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 14:12

xsanguine wrote:Is she down for a 3 way? Or at least let you and a buddy run a train?

Let's start answering the important questions.

No to either. :-( to the first, :-) to the 2nd. I believe this is called give or take.

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 14:12

InTenSity wrote:Sounds like you have it all figured out. Best of luck to you.

WhAt gives you that impression?

by **WhiteBoyHatcher** 2016-04-06, 14:19

I would never try to give you advice blanch. After all I hate my life and I couldn't hack it in Houston or something.

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 14:39

WhiteBoyHatcher wrote:I would never try to give you advice blanch. After all I hate my life and I couldn't hack it in Houston or something.

You realize Moose and I aren't one and the same right?

by **kingstonlake** 2016-04-06, 14:44

Blanch32 wrote:
SeeRockCity wrote:You just have to be yourself, hopefully she loves you for who you are...

wait, nevermind.

2nd call to change who I am completely. Lol. She told me that's what makes her crazy about me....my awesomeness and premium status.

Yeah. That'll never wear off.

by **Rocinante** 2016-04-06, 14:47

Other Teams Pursuing That wrote:Blanch. If she's the one you won't have to change. Fuck that.

Ahhh the ignorance of youth.

by **Blanch32** 2016-04-06, 15:14

GSM : why are the last posts so bitter? Ftr, she's 32, so about 10 years older than my previous gfs

by **Other Teams Pursuing That** 2016-04-06, 15:57

Rocinante wrote:
Other Teams Pursuing That wrote:Blanch. If she's the one you won't have to change. Fuck that.

Ahhh the ignorance of youth.

Meh. Too many people fall into the same ole trap.

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