Damn it Bob, I need advice! They're passing the hat at work for that white/mexican chick!!!

The Pantry wrote:A diaper fund?  

Do you work for a lawn care business?

I.B. Fine wrote:So you're saying she's having a kid? fathered by her husband or the side piece?
Makes a difference in the advice given.

Giant Moose wrote:Good luck getting ahold of Bob. This is 4th of July week. Bob takes the whole week off to pray to his special Jesus American flag.

Giant Moose wrote:Good luck getting ahold of Bob. This is 4th of July week. Bob takes the whole week off to pray to his special Jesus American flag.

Minnie wrote:Are you sure Bob isn't in court justifying his love of Taylor Swift to a judge?

Taylor Swift's Alleged Stalker Wants Her to Testify on His Behalf

I.B. Fine wrote:So the 'life event' is being suspended for being a dumbass at work?

AMwood wrote:you guys should get her a gift certificate for boxing lessons.

kingstonlake wrote:I'm in a spot here. Usually we will pass the hat (get a card) at work and put a few $ in it for certain life events. She contributed when I had my daughter 16 moths ago. But in my heart I feel this dust up at work was perpetrated by her. So why should I have to fork over a few of my hard earned bucks to a perpetrator who was justly disciplined with a week off? But the rub is she's technically a minority so I guess she entitled to something from me, right? But on the other hand she's 50% white so obviously there's some "privilege" in there. I'm at a cross roads here. I don't want her 75% Mexican kids (she's married to a Mexican guy) to go hungry. But the white guy she's seeing on the side could flip the bill, right? WTF am I supposed to do? This has become a real mess. Do I owe her for buying me some diapers when I had a kid even though she's at fault here? But again, she's a minority.

Honestly (And I swear I'll do it) is to go to the bank and get $20 worth of peso's and put it in the card. That way I can have a good laugh and ease a little of my conscience at the same time.

Thoughts, Bob?

Watch Out Pylon! wrote:

Giant Moose wrote:Good luck getting ahold of Bob. This is 4th of July week. Bob takes the whole week off to pray to his special Jesus American flag.

Yep. He's staying at the Grand on Mackinaw Island. You have to pay $5 if you want to talk to him on the front porch.

Robert J Sakimano wrote:

kingstonlake wrote:I'm in a spot here.  Usually we will pass the hat (get a card) at work and put a few $ in it for certain life events.  She contributed when I had my daughter 16 moths ago.  But in my heart I feel this dust up at work was perpetrated by her.  So why should I have to fork over a few of my hard earned bucks to a perpetrator who was justly disciplined with a week off?  But the rub is she's technically a minority so I guess she entitled to something from me, right?  But on the other hand she's 50% white so obviously there's some "privilege" in there.  I'm at a cross roads here.  I don't want her 75% Mexican kids (she's married to a Mexican guy) to go hungry.  But the white guy she's seeing on the side could flip the bill, right?  WTF am I supposed to do?  This has become a real mess.  Do I owe her for buying me some diapers when I had a kid even though she's at fault here?  But again, she's a minority.  

Honestly (And I swear I'll do it) is to go to the bank and get $20 worth of peso's and put it in the card.  That way I can have a good laugh and ease a little of my conscience at the same time.

Thoughts, Bob?

when you say "get a card" do you mean a green card?